D/s Relationships

D/s Relationships

For those of you who want more information on D/s relationships:

Welcome. A specialty, and passion of mine is to educate and guide others about the relationships that have a leader and a follower. This is the “relationship orientation” of many of us around the world.

This is called Dominant and submissive or D/s, (more commonly) or Leading and Supportive. D/s doesn’t discriminate, the partners can be any gender, of any sexual orientation, any adult age, and vanilla, kinky, or in between, and come from any background/belief system.

As I mentioned, D/s is a “Relationship Orientation“. There are massive amounts of people in this world who are either partner type naturally. While there is a surplus of education/books/specialists/courses on relationships in general, there is still a serious lack of guidance and support, specifically on the foundation of this relationship dynamic. Further, people are still discriminating against it, thinking it’s unhealthy or abusive. So much of my work is to change this right now.

Any kind of relationship can have unhealthy people who mistreat or abuse, or allow it. Healthy D/s is a powerful, beautiful dance of cooperation, collaboration and devotion to one another. This needs to be understood more. I work with clients in terms of finding partners, healing from relationships and facilitating couples, especially D/s partners. I also provide resources for those who are one of the two partner types and believe that love is priority and they create their own relationships, not just let them happen.

This is why was created. There are videos, a course, community membership, my book and more featured here.

I have included some below. I wish you great D/s Love! – Chris

You can get your free trial to our membership D/s community here:

Here’s my book, Leading and Supportive Love:

Here’s a short fun video that introduces the concept of this dynamic. You can share it with your loved ones:

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Check out the Book

(eBook, in PDF format)

A must-read for anyone who is a D/s partner in their committed relationship, no matter what your experience or lifestyle.

“I could not put this book down…I felt like the author pulled all my questions out of my head, put them on paper, and gave the most thorough of answers. An absolute revelation.”


“Finally, a book that looks at this topic from a non-kink perspective. Power dynamics are in play in all relationships and some folks are happiest when the roles are clearly defined. This book shines the light on that fact and “normalizes” it.”

James R. Bender